Family is God’s strategy for discipleship!

(Deutsche Version)

Have you ever tried hanging up laundry with a two-year-old? It definitely takes longer than doing it alone. But by believing in my son’s ability to use his skills—even though he’s nowhere near as good at it as I am—and showing him over and over again how it works, he feels like a big kid already and learns so much more than if he were just watching. In the same way, he can already join in prayer and worship. God sees his growing heart, not the end result.

That’s no coincidence. Family is God’s strategy for discipleship—God loves to start small. This theme runs through the whole Bible:

  • In the beginning, there is a man and a woman: Adam and Eve are told to fill the earth—they must have wondered how they were ever going to manage that.
  • Abraham receives the promise of countless descendants—and gets one son.
  • God chooses David—the youngest, the one his own father didn’t even bother to invite. The shepherd becomes king.

And then comes Jesus. He doesn’t just talk about family—he redefines it:

  • He calls his disciples brothers and sisters.
  • He dies so that lost sons and daughters can come home.
  • With his resurrection, a new family is born – people from every nation and background, brought together by him. The first Christians can hardly believe it: even the Gentiles belong. The walls come down. The family grows.

The same thing happens at every level—in marriage, the nuclear family, the church, God’s great family: We learn to love someone we didn’t choose. We practice forgiveness. We grow through our differences. It’s the same pattern in ever-widening circles.

And of course that includes serving God in mission together as families. Together we hang the laundry, pray for our neighbors, and encourage people here in Hainichen. Young and old bring what they have, and God makes it grow. Step by step.

(I have written this text for a newsletter of Youth With A Mission Hainichen.)

Bild ist generiert von Gemini, Prompt: A chubby toddler hand gripping a small white sock at the middle, held up toward a clothesline, while a large adult hand (male, 40 years old) gently opens a wooden clothespin to clip it on – not taking over, just making it possible. The contrast between the two hands tells the story: small and large, unsteady and steady, learning and teaching. Soft warm morning light falls across both hands. In the slightly blurred background, a clothesline with laundry already hanging and swaying in a gentle breeze – fruit of work already done. The mood is patient, tender, full of quiet purpose. Photorealistic, landscape orientation, shallow depth of field, close-up shot.

About Mr. Evil Inside of Me

For if you live according to the flesh you will die,
but if by the Spirit you put to death the deeds of the body, you will live.
Romans 8:13 (ESV)

What does the word „flesh“ mean in the Bible? This question has been bothering me for many years now. One the one hand, „flesh“ talks about our temptations – we tend to go back to our bad habits from the past, especially in stressful situation. We hope that our coping strategy that gave us some short-time relief will work again, like an addict that longs for the next shot. On the other hand, „flesh“ also talks about our normal human condition – our body is made of flesh. God made us by taking dust to form our flesh, then breathing his life into it. So it is normal, humanly speaking, to fail, to follow the sin of our previos generations.

Two Sides of a Coin

So which one is it, is „flesh“ a spiritual principle, or simply the „human way“? Is it someone tempting us, or is the Evil already inside of our heart? The Bible always puts flesh in the contrast: „Obey the spirit or obey your flesh.“, i.e. obey God’s way or obey Satan’s way of doing things. This means, probably it is both – it is a power beyond our human control, but still, it is our responsibility to choose Good instead of Evil.

Maybe that’s why the Bible is using this metaphor „flesh“. Both the human and the spiritual side are implied. Of course it’s totally understandable: You are human flesh. Your behavior will reflect his. However, you don’t have to stay there. You cannot go out of your body, but you can learn to behave in a new way, the spirit way.

Already Dead. Already Alive.

Recently, the Bible paraphrase „The Voice“ of the verse above helped me to grasp this paradox a little bit better:

For if your life is just about satisfying the impulses of your sinful nature [flesh], then prepare to die.
But if you have invited the Spirit to destroy these selfish desires, you will experience life.
Romans 8:13

It’s as if Paul is writing here:

You really believe doing what your instincts tell you is bringing life? You might really want to … and NOW. I get it. It might even feel good for that moment. But: prepare to die. In the light of death, all these pleasures or refuge places become meaningless. In a way, when you give in to these tempations, you are already dead. Because you are walking on the path that leads to death. It might be the broad, „normal“ path. But remember: You will die.

Now consider the alternative: You are a child of God. His Spirit is inside of you, ready and willing to teach you a new lifestyle. The question is: Do you listen? He has a much better way of doing things, you know. And yes, you are still human, but you are part of a new family now. You belong to this new life, a life that overflows into eternity. That’s your heritage. It already belongs to you. Now, whenever you choose to follow that new, narrow path, you are already alive, more alive then ever.

So – it’s our choice. Which path will we walk?

God is Encouraging Us

It feels like God whispering to us:

Don’t forget: Living fully in the spirit means to be fully human, like Jesus lived as „renewed human“, like Adam and Eve lived as „humans in his original design“. You don’t have to take off your body like you take off a coat. I will renew your body! No, just don’t trust every instinct, because Sin is more deeply rooted inside of you than you think. Your gut feeling might be correct, but it also might be a little out of tune, in subtle but important ways.

Trust me to sort that out. I am teaching you how to live.

Illustration generated by Gemini: „Write a prompt and generate the image of an anatomic heart to illustrate Romans 8:13. Spirit is illustrated by light, life, fruit; flesh is illustrated by death, decay, subtly going through the entire heart. No text. –ar 16:9“

Carpe Minutam – How Our Baby Changed Our lifestyle

(Deutsche Version)

Soon after returning home from the hospital after the birth of our son, we realized that we had to completely rethink our time management: Carpe Minutam.

You know Carpe Diem, “seize the day.” With a baby, that becomes “seize the minute, because you don’t know when it will wake up again!” Undisturbed time became a luxury – should we tidy up, organize, or rest ourselves? Often, we started with resting.

It took a while to get our household back on track—what a gift it is to be able to take parental leave! First, we had to completely change our lifestyle, and that as two introverted, highly sensitive people who had developed coping strategies over the years that were now, overnight, partially obsolete. And then we also had high expectations of how much attention and love we wanted to give our child.

Even the baby driver’s license course that we did couldn’t really prepare us for what awaited us. It was a bit like learning to swim “in theory”, by talking about it – not wrong, but trying it out and doing it is essential. Our first “aha” moment in this process was realizing how important it is for us to maintain humor, confidence, and peace. There is hope: our Father in Heaven entrusted this baby to us; he believed we were ready for it. So we continue to try to grow into these shoes.

It wasn’t until one year after his brith that the feeling of being on the brink of being completely overwhelmed faded a little. Becoming parents was the most challenging thing we have ever experienced. Yet, there are parents who have to overcome even greater challenges—we cannot imagine how single parents manage. But we also know that with further children, we will be able to deal with situations much more calmly. Simply because we have already done it once.

Until then, we will make the most of every minute that God gives us.

Image Prompt: Clipart style illustration of a classic round alarm clock with two bells on top. The clock has only two hands (hour and minute). A 5-minute section on the clock face, starting right after the minute hand and going clockwise, is highlighted in red like a pie slice. The rest of the clock face remains plain. Simple, flat clipart design with fine outlines and transparent background.

Wachstum geschieht nicht über Nacht

(With English translation)

In dieser Predigt erzähle ich …

  • … warum Wachstum nicht linear geschieht,
  • … warum auch im Winter Wachstum geschieht,
  • … und vor allem: wie die Bibel Wachstum sieht.

In welcher „Jahreszeit“ bist du gerade?

Welches Wachstum wertschätzt Gott in dir?

Texte: 1. Mose 1,28 ; 1. Mose 3,17 ; Josua 14,9-12 ; 2. Mose 23,29-30 ; Johannes 15 ; Galater 5,25

Download Predigt (52min)

Bild des Baumes mit Sora erstellt: „photorealistic jpg, cherry tree in 4 seasons at the same time, background blue sky“

Waiting

Psalm 130:5-6 WallpaperStille.

Ein geduldiges Licht strahlt die ganze Nacht. Wann kommt der Morgen?

Ich warte.

Ich warte auf sein Wort, denn sein Wort verändert die Realität. Seine Verheißungen sind wie eine Anzahlung. Wann kommt die Auszahlung?

Meine Hoffnung ist lebendig, wie ein Kerzenlicht. Ich vertraue – er wird nicht zu spät kommen.

Timo Langner – Ein Gott der das Meer teilt (Offizielles Musikvideo)

How God Made His Love Grow

(Deutsche Version)

What would Jesus invest in? As you know, His Father is very, very rich. And as rich people go, they are very specific in what they want to invest. So together, Father, Son and Holy Spirit invented a wonderful, fail-proof investment opportunity. Here is what could have been their reasoning:

– Okay, so we have a lot of love to invest. We need to spend it, otherwise it can’t grow. Where can we invest it? What ideas do you have?
– Maybe into the sun?
– Hm, good idea, it will radiate everything it receives.
– Yes, but love shouldn’t be one-way, right? We need something else.

– Maybe … we invest into a tree?
– Oh yes, the tree can bring delicious fruit and relaxing shade …
– … and in return, its receivers can cuddle and water it!
– Amazing idea!
– Sounds good. Except… a tree doesn’t have a heart like us. How can it feel loved then?
– We need something more like us.

– Okay, maybe the human?
– He is so cute, isn’t he?! Sounds splendid.
– We can love him all day, and he can love us back! You’re a genius! Very good.
– Except… maybe he’ll get bored one day?
– No, we will make sure he won’t get bored, ever! He will share in our responsibilities: planting, naming, caring, …
– Yes, but… he would only love us because we love him.
– Why else should he love?
– Yes, I know, but something feels … not good.

All three were pondering.

– I think I get what you mean. We love to invest, so we should let him be an investor, not only a receiver.
– Exactly. So what do we do?
– What about … creating two different humans, similar yet different? Then they can decide to love each other.
– Brilliant! And to take your idea even further – what about letting them create new humans?!
– Maybe they enjoy it just as much as we do?!
– Wow! Yes! And then – not only can they invest their love in them, they can see their love grow in a very tangible way!
– We should make sure though to emphasise that family is a lifetime commitment. Otherwise they may create orphans, not sons.
– You are right. Oh, and then, these children will get children again – let’s call it generations!
– Yes! And these children will choose each other, just as we have chosen the human! So that a person can be a very special person of another person!

And so the design of family gradually took form. For hours, they continued to discuss it in every detail. Their excitement grew and grew, until Jesus cried out:

– Wait! … What if … We are giving them the power to choose whom they love, correct?
– Correct.
– What happens if they choose not to love us?
– Then they won’t be able to receive our love anymore.
– And they would start to hurt each other.
– With devastating consequences …

– But why should anyone do this? I mean, our love is the best they can get, right?
– That’s right, but suppose somebody tricked then into mistrusting us. What can we do?
– Then … we have to show them what real love looks like.
– Again and again.
– Even when they waste our goodness, taking advantage of us.
– Even then.
– Over many generations.
– Potentially, yes.
– Even unto death.

Suddenly, the entire heaven was silent. Pensively, Jesus added:
– You mean … to prove that Life is stronger than Death.

The Father nodded.
And slowly, Jesus said:
– Ok, I am ready. Let’s do it.

God saw all that he had made, and it was very good.
(Genesis 1:31)

Photo by Orlando Allo on Unsplash

Ask me!

Ask me, and I will tell you things that you don't know and can't find out. (Jer 33:3)

Du weißt nicht, was und wie und warum?
Frag einfach mich!
Ich bin da.

Du kannst es nicht herausfinden?
Du hast schon alles versucht?
Frag einfach mich!
Ich bin für dich da.

Ich höre dir zu.
Du kannst einfach du sein.
Du kannst alle Sorgen, Ängste, Hoffnungen vor mich legen
und dann wird es ruhig innen drin.

Ich werde dich auf eine Reise mitnehmen.
Ich erkläre dir nicht alles auf einmal,
das würde dich überfordern.
Vertrau mir.
Aber ich erzähle dir Neues,
Dinge die dein Horizont erweitern.

Du brauchst eine frische Perspektive?
Frische Hoffnung?
Brot, das wirklich satt macht?
Komm zu mir.

Frage mich,
und ich werde dir Dinge mitteilen,
die du nicht weißt
und auch nicht alleine herausfinden kannst.
(Jeremia 33,3)

 

 

G/RACE - SO GOOD TO ME

Grace

G/RACE - SO GOOD TO ME

Before you RACE ahead,
remember what propels you forward.

Gnade – was für ein riesiges Wort.

Rennen – ich liebe es, vorwärts zu kommen.
Aber – ohne Wurzeln kommt man nicht weit. Paradox!

Gnade ist wie ein Bogen, der den Pfeil zielgerichtet schießt. Ansonsten renne ich zwar viel – aber es bringt nichts.

Oder, wie Jesus es sagen würde: Frucht bringen kann man nur, wenn man mit dem Weinstock verbunden bleibt.

Und was ist Gnade?
Dass uns jemand verspricht, dass er nur Güte für uns hat.
Wow.

The Lord is my banner (How to write your own psalm)

It’s easy to write your own psalm after the template of Psalm 23. We did it in a corporate worship time and it’s fun! I love using my creativity to worship Him! (Deutsche Version)

The Lord is my banner,
I look up to him.

He leads us into battle,
he knows the entire strategy.

When enemies come, he is not surprised;
his royalty is shielding us from harm.

And even when it hurts,
his love works within me;
he knows me inside out.

My life and my death is in his hands.
I entrust my hopes and desires to the One
who already sees their completion.
His promises are my daily bread.

Let God arise, and his enemies be scattered!


Here is how you can write your own Psalm. These questions reflect the structure of Psalm 23:

  1. Think of a characteristic or picture of God (in my example: banner)
    The Lord is my shepherd
  2. What are its consequences for me?
    I lack nothing.
  3. What does he do with me?
    He makes me lie down in green pastures...
  4. What does this mean in difficult times?
    Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death …
  5. What does it mean for my future?
    Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me …
  6. A concluding statement from my side
    I shall dwell in the house of the Lord forever.